Monday, March 30, 2009

On being a better listener (the 2009 E.J. Pratt Lecture)

The E.J. Pratt Lecture is the most prestigious literary event of the year at Memorial University of Newfoundland. Past speakers have included Northrup Frye, David Lodge, Terry Eagleton, Ursula K. LeGuin, and Stan Dragland. This year's lecture was given by J. Edward Chamberlin or "Ted", as a small group of grad students came to know him at in an informal question-and-answer period the day after he delivered his lecture entitled "The Snarl Around Our Dory: The Long Line of Island Traditions" (http://today.mun.ca/news.php?news_id=4463).

In sitting through his lecture that ranged from Native North American lore to Australian Aborigines' oral storytelling to constitutions and treaties as narratives of identity to Israeli and Palestinian relations, I realized that Dr. Chamberlin's chief skill was not as an orator, writer or storyteller (though he is quite good at all of these). His chief skill is as a listener.

As an intent and careful listener, Dr. Chamberlin has spent a lifetime inclining his ear to people's stories: to many people's stories, recognizing conflict and seeing the need for common ground but being refreshingly reticent to promote "simple" pluralism. Dr. Chamberlin has worked with aboriginal land claims in the Mackenzie River Valley, Alaska, and Australia, advocating the primacy of people's stories of themselves, whatever disparate forms those stories take. And these stories, according to Dr. Chamberlin, are not just coming from one side of any conflict; the unique and compelling strength of his argument is that distinct (and often violently conflicting) worldviews or stories cannot be taken seriously if they are homegenized into "nice liberal pruralism."

"Pluralism is a danger not because it creates conflicts... but because it masks them" (from If this is your land, where are your stories?).

In listening to Dr. Chamberlin and in having him listen to me and to my colleagues and friends, I felt that even though we may not all share the same worldview or faith-perspective (though he is a fascinating person to speak to about "belief"), he actively listened to us and tried to understand us on our own terms. This could have been aided by the food on the table in the side conference room in the English Department and the Red Stripe Lager we were drinking, or it could be in part that he introduced himself as Ted rather than Dr. Chamberlin and that he remembered my name though I only offered it once.

I came away from that lecture and that informal meeting not only refreshed that someone was as enamoured with stories and belief as I am, but challenged to be a better listener, and by extension (since I am an English student), a better reader. In pursuit of this I'm working my way through Dr. Chamberlin's book If this is your land, where are your stories? which I highly recommend to all but perhaps specifically to Adunare and e.go.

5 comments:

Adunare said...

What a fantastic quote re: pluralism! Btw - this book sells very low used at Amazon.com (the shipping is about 10x the cost of the book itself). I've ordered myself a copy, which (e.go particularly) others will be welcome to borrow.

Q Prentice said...

Excellent! If you find him compelling, his wife is the poet Lorna Goodison and anything she has written is worth reading, rereading, and then slowly meditating upon.

Erin said...

Totally agree with his take on pluralism...especially in the context of Canadian multiculturalism. Thanks for the recommendation of his book. When does your copy arrive, Adunare?

I'm really interested in your description of Chamberlin as a good listener (and not a good orator). Those two things seem to go hand in hand often. I wonder why. It's a real shame. Some of the best listeners I know are the hardest to listen to because their ability to listen so well has perforated all the hard edges to their thinking. I admire this quality in someone's character, but do I admire it enough to live with the ragged edges in communication that it creates?
Reading, re-reading, and then slowly meditating is one way to begin the process of listening. You should really read _In Bed with the Word_ by Daniel Coleman. I'll post on it later...?

Q Prentice said...

I think I may have misrepresented Dr. Chamberlin as a "bad orator," he's actually a pretty good speaker. What I was trying to highlight was the listening yes, but I don't feel that his listening has "perforated the hard edges of his thinking." Quite the opposite: I think his listening has sharpened the edge of his argument. His whole goal, I think, is to mend the "ragged edges in communication," which I think he does. (You'll have to let me know what you think once you get your hands on his book).

I do, however, agree that there is a strong tendency, in general, to be a good listener and a "soft" or rumpled thinker. Perhaps having a poet for a wife keeps Chamberlin on his toes.

Please do send along or post a citation for the Daniel Coleman piece.

Adunare said...

Oh that book is shipping from somewhere in California... it's going to be a long time. Sorry e.go :(